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November 27, 2012

I hate you for you did not love me enough



One of my senior colleagues has been visiting me for some official task. And in routine conversation one day he happened to talk about some of his experiences with our ex- boss. He had worked with him for more than a year, and he had lots of stories in his memory to tell. The stories were indeed adventurous, as one can imagine out a year of administration of a residential university with 3000 students and nearly half on campus.

He started by appreciating the ex boss, and told about his interactions with him. Interestingly, in most of the incidents he narrated, he was the ‘Hero’. He was the one who always stood by the boss irrespective of anything. He had either helped the ex-boss come out of the difficult situations or he had warned before. He was always the one who wanted to save and safeguard the boss in tricky situations.  And more interestingly, in such cases the boss rarely listened to him. Rather, according to him, he ridiculed him and never liked him; despite that he was all the time standing beside him, for him.  Then, he started criticizing and eventually abusing the ex boss. And in those stories, there came a point when he had got so fed up with the boss' attitude towards him that one day left the office. And the story went like this that the boss called him and pleaded to come back and he in turn lambasted the boss over the phone.