हर फ़िक्र को धुएँ में उड़ाता चला गया

I remember five years back when I got too obsessed with listening to the sad news. I was just concentrating on the news like - he died; he had a cardiac arrest; she had the malignancy; someone met with an accident and so on so forth. It made me totally engaged in this and my mind was ill-focused. In the process I was always thinking- am I having this disease? I should go to the doctor and I made the life of my doctor friends hell. The witness is Dr. P P Khandelwal.  

Even when my son was getting married I was not in the right mood. I was always thinking as if life is coming to the end. I was running from pillar to post for my check-up. This is called obsessive-compulsive disorder. I passed pitiable 3 years and forgot what is happiness. I started getting weak. 

But one fine day I just threw this obsession out of the window. जो होगा अच्छा होगा! I concentrated on music and sports. My friends helped me a lot including my brother like Dr. P P Khandelwal Sahib and other friends who are musical and sportsperson. I kept myself occupied and

 हर फ़िक्र को धुएँ में उड़ाता चला गया  

मैं जिंदगी का साथ निभाता चला गया 

There are many persons who keep on repenting - अरे मेरी शादी वहां हो रही थी, अरे में वो जमीन खरीद रहा था, अरे में IAS Main पास हो गया पर interview में रह गया, अरे में ये शेयर्स ले लेता तो ये हो जाता  and so on so forth.

These persons all the time get captivated by these stories. They cherish talking about such fiascos things in their life.  Neither they remain happy nor allow others to remain happy. 

Just forget the past and enjoy every moment of the present and don’t live in the future either. Just think - whatever would happen it would be GOOD. God is great! We are his kids, he has to decide how and how much we are to live. Just hold his hands and just enjoy the life ahead. 

Author: Mr. Anil Khandelwal

He is a Chartered Accountant, has been in the practice of Project Financing for the past 25 years and corporate service for 11 years, residing in Jaipur. Mr. Khandelwal is the Admin of a variety of groups which include Finance, Economy, Music, Quotations, Political discourses comprising of top minds, administrators, bankers, Doctors, real estate developers & Professionals across the conceivable sectors, managing them all well.